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Post by kaylinhere on Jun 24, 2009 15:21:14 GMT -5
Dear Admin, I really, really, really like this guy in my grade. He's sweet, funny, and cute!! But he's popular and I'm... not. What do I do!
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Post by Ellisa on Jun 25, 2009 13:29:01 GMT -5
Well it sounds like you have a problem on your hands. Well, sorry but this is to tough, I don't think there's anything I can say or do to help you... Just Kidding! So, here's what you should do first. It sounds like your not that confident in yourself and you have got to to get over that! Boy's may never look at you in that way if you seem like you can't handle it. So find some,e confidence and figure out that your a beautiful person and that nothing anyone ever says is going to change that. It also sounds as if you're scared that he'll say no. Just know that that's always going to be a possibility in every relationship, not just this one. Now here's where the real stuff comes in. Try to get to be his friend first. You know, a little laughing and some extremely suttle flirting and keep escalating- but only if he seems into it. If he doesn't back off a little. Maybe try to pretend you don't want him. Guys usually love that, but they don't if someone's clinging onto them. I'm not saying that your doing that, but you could be without realizing it. Last thing I got to say ids that is he seems into the 'friend' stuff- GO FOR IT!
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